There is no ‘one’. Or there is more than one ‘one’. Those are all things clients have said to us. We’ve said them to ourselves too at different times but that didn’t stop us from getting out there dating. The best advice we can give to anyone thinking of jumping in to...

Just not seven days a week.

Did you feel a bit proud when same-sex marriage became law in 2017? All, not just some of the friends and family at our wedding could now have one too. But would they also …

We both brought our dogs.

I left mine with her while I went to get coffee. He did what dogs do on a walk; I came back to find she had picked it up and found a bin.

I was …

It was our first, and only date.

Five foot eleven? Nup, she said. She sized me up and made me feel, well, small.

I don’t know how she picked it. RSVP profiles at the time accepted height in feet and …

She broke her first rule of dating.

Never get into a strange man’s car. We’d left the noisy venue and stopped to talk when I spotted her hand-hewn necklace; she removed it, with a kind of intimacy, to show me. …